that of course adult bullying is prevalent as well.... and in very subtle ways. It took some soul-searching on my part to discover what I was allowing and the realization that I needed to confront and set some firmer boundaries.
Over time I have severed ties to the blatant bullies in my life, but noticed recently that a long-time friend fits the subtle bully category. Once the behaviors (specifically exclusion and ridicule) were identified and admitted for what they are, I needed to make a choice and cut back on time spent trying to maintain a relationship with this person. Once addressed, it feels great to let that one go. Anyone else experience this?
And for a little seasonal drama, here's my vernal equinox fire
photo from last year as I ceremoniously burned the Christmas
tree. And the ice at the downspout a week ago... love this image...
running freely one day and frozen solid the next.
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